Review: Njoy Eleven
The Njoy Eleven is a thing of legend. I think it was one of the first sex-utensils that I put on my wishlist, much like every other sex-writer, -worker, and reviewer on this here planet. It’s the sort...
View ArticleEpic Bondage Rope Guide: Basics and Safety
Bondage rope is kinda like tacos. Sure the Taco Bell around the corner is cheap, convenient, and will do the job, but if you REALLY want tacos? Hunting down the elusive handmade street tacos are so...
View ArticleReview: Packer Gear Brief Harnesses
The future is now, and it is glorious. A future that involves comfortable, dysphoria-friendly, full-featured, washable, packing-friendly, underpants style strap-on harnesses for under $30. Yes, you...
View ArticleQuickie: Rights, Not Rescue
And then there comes a time in the life of a human rights activist turned sex educator and sex-utensil savant when it all just fits into place. Life is a weird puzzle like that really. In June of 2014...
View ArticlePain In The Pelvis
I’ve talked before about my struggles with mental health treatment. I know I’m often found going into tirades about it on twitter. What I haven’t talked about to nearly anyone is that since roundabout...
View ArticleReview: Crystal Delights Glass Dilators
I think that, absent those of us who are working towards reconstructive surgeries, most people never expect to need dilators. I know I didn’t. When the folks at Crystal Delights first mentioned they...
View ArticleBlack Friday & Cyber Monday Sex Utensil Sales
“The time has come,” Lorax said, “To talk of many things: Of dildos, vibes, and anal lube, of butt-plugs and cock-rings” The time has indeed come- the time when the world goes bonkers for eggnog and...
View ArticleThe Curious Incident of the Romp in my Butt
As you might imagine, being a writer on the internet means you get a bit of email. Being a writer on the internet about sex gets you a lot of email. Sometimes one shows up which absolutely must be...
View ArticleQuick Reference Guide to Rigid Cockrings
Cockrings have been made of hard materials like metal, plastic, wood, and stone since the beginning of cockrings. Long before the advent of elastomers and silicone. Yet I encounter a lot of...
View ArticleA Pox On Your Box: The Problem of LELO Hex
I really don’t want to be writing this. Well no, that’s not true. I don’t want to have to write this, but sex education is lacking as it is and far too many people are being rather lackadaisical about...
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